Psychology and relationship research do not crown name numerology or height gaps as predictors of lasting partnership. Factors that show up again and again include shared values, respectful communication, ability to repair after conflict, emotional regulation, and alignment on major life goals (money, family, place, work). Attraction and shared interests matter, but they are weaker long-term predictors than how you treat each other when things go wrong.
The panel’s talk-prompt cards - values, conflict repair, money & decisions - are the redirect from toy math to those topics. One card is highlighted as “start here” based on which optional demographic gap is largest in your inputs (or values when metrics are blank). That highlight is a conversation nudge, not a clinical assessment.
For foundational reading, see the APA overview of healthy relationships and Gottman Institute research summaries linked in Sources. Those are starting points for literacy - not a substitute for a licensed clinician when you need care.